The world we live in and the media that seems to guide it’s decisions and thinking has convinced women and some men that sexy is only found in the shape of a woman’s body. Be it a large chest size or a round back side, we have been hypnotized with the belief that sexy is all about the frame. Truth is, that most men who marry are not at all that interested in their woman having perfect curves or a beach body shape. Most are attracted to and turned on by a woman who can share intimate moments with him in stimulating thought and dialogue. Being able to talk about the future and having hopes, dreams and goals that can be articulated clearly and with color are an aphrodisiac. I’d encourage every woman to make sure that as she is getting that body right, not to forget to put much more into her mind. Read, study, and learn about the world around you, and about yourself. As you fill your head with knowledge and listen to those with wisdom, you will begin to realize your own value and self worth. Confidence is exuded from a woman who understands that she does not have to display her private parts fully or partially in order to be found attractive or approachable by a quality Man. Real men appreciate real women for who they are inside. #WaysToTell
What would make you think that a man who is looking for a wife to be committed to and to possibly mother is children would be inclined to seek her out in a club or bar or party full of over sexed men and women half naked. The mind of a marrying man has matured and has come to a place in hi life in which all foolishness and playing around has ended. He is not interested in sharing her with anyone and knows that a woman who will twerk or shake her booty in the face of this man, is not ready to settle down yet. Maturity seeks out maturity. There may be men hanging out where you are going, and they may look good to you and you to them. They are not however men who are looking to make the pole sliding thick chick full of singles and glitter, their one and only. Sexy is sexy with clothes on, modest, and with dignity and class. Keep yours!
It’s one thing to respect you while you are in his presence, but a total different thing to honor you while you’re away. Other woman are often willing to flirt, and move in whenever they see an available moment. It takes a man who is in love and committed to you, to refuse this type of advance and make every woman respect you. If he does this, he likes you…if he doesn’t he’s not that into you.
Men know what they want and dont want. In most cases they have already shown clear signs that would tell you just what that is. Most times women just dont want to really know. If he stays away and calls you only when he wants to sex you up stop asking yourself does he want to have a relationship with you. You are better than this my sister. There is no way you can change him simply by complaining about it. Dont wait on him to make the choice for your life. Thats your responsibility.
Laying with him and allowing him access to you anytime he chooses is not the strategy that keeps him and makes your life complete. If he does not want you without “having you” he won’t want you after he’s “had you”.
When you allow a man access to you without limits, you should be prepared for him to come and go as he pleases without regard for your feelings or needs.
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